Showing posts with label Mindful Listening. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mindful Listening. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

LISTENING TO MUSIC MINDFULLY


In recent years a form of complementary medicine known as music therapy has emerged, which can be useful for the treatment and management of a number of conditions including stress, depression, chronic pain and coping with cancer. (You may wish to watch this YouTube video on music therapy.)

Of course, music has been used for years in connection with various meditative and contemplative practices, but usually solely or primarily with the object of stilling or even numbing the mind.

However, readers of these blogs will already know that Mindfulness is not about stilling or numbing the mind. It’s about the presence of the choiceless awareness of, and bare attention to, the action of, among other things, one’s body and mind ... for never forget that Mindfulness is a whole-body-and-mind awareness of the present moment. More than that, it is the cultivation of awareness, bringing one's attention to the moment over and over. So, music therapy and Mindfulness involve no passive listening to music but a state of awareness.
One can listen to any type of music mindfully but I prefer something “sweet”, melodic and slow tempo. For me, Beethoven is definitely out, but you can still listen mindfully to his music if you wish ... or even punk rock. (Indeed, I do listen to Beethoven ... even mindfully ... for true Mindfulness is awareness without comment, judgment or discrimination ... so it really doesn't matter what kind of music you listen to ... as long as you listen to it mindfully.)

Having said that, I do have my favourites, so being quite unsophisticated in my musical tastes I ordinarily go for something as "ordinary" as Clause Debussy’s Clair de lune (to listen, click on this link) or a sultry rendition of “My Funny Valentine(from the Richard Rodgers and Lorenz Hart musical Babes in Arms) (to listen, click on this link).


The important thing is to focus mindfully on the sound and the vibration of each note ... even if you are so familiar with the tune - like I am with the two items mentioned above - that you know which note is next. It doesn't matter. You simply feel the presence of the sound and the vibration in your head and elsewhere in your body ... as if you were hearing and experiencing it for the very first time!

As you listen to the music notice any changes in instrumentation, tempo and volume. If there is singing notice any changes in pitch, volume and feeling. Is the music loud or soft? Notice any changes in bodily or mental sensations as the music is played. (You may, for example, experience some not unpleasant "buzz" or tingling sensation when a certain note really resonates with you.) Notice, too, at what points the music influences what you are thinking and how you are feeling. 

Note the sensations which arise both in your body and in your mind ... as well as the feelings and any "emotional baggage" the music brings up for, and within, you ... as they arise ... from moment to moment. If you start engaging in mental movies or mental chatter, don't castigate yourself, but simply note what is happening, and gently bring your mind back to the current moment and the particular piece of music to which you are listening.

While you are listening to your chosen piece of music, breathe "normally". In other words, don't intentionally make your breath long or short nor strong or weak. Let it flow normally and naturally ... for you.

As I’ve said before, you cannot fail with Mindfulness ... unless you become involved in your thoughts and feelings as opposed to merely observing them. Be fully present with whatever arises in the moment.

Mindfulness involves observing and releasing habits of mind to which you would otherwise be enslaved, and being fully attentive to everything as-it-is as opposed to filtering everything through one’s subjective opinions and feelings.

Like all forms and applications of Mindfulness, listening to music mindfully starts with non-judgmental self-observation, leading to self-awakening, self-insight and, ultimately, self-liberty ... that is, freedom from mindless, unthinking existence.

Happy listening!


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Tuesday, November 16, 2010

MAKING AUSTRALIA HAPPY ... MINDFULLY AND OTHERWISE

“Eight volunteers. Three experts. Eight weeks. One vision.”
Last night I watched the first episode Making Australia Happy on ABC-1 ... and thoroughly enjoyed it.

Here’s the link to the first episode.
For the first time ever, in Making Australia Happy the latest and most fascinating research from the science of happiness has been compiled, consolidated and taken for a test drive on the suburban streets of Sydney. Three of Australia’s leading experts have agreed to “take” eight people from what is said to be "Australia's unhappiest area" - Marrickville, in the Sydney metropolitan area - and “give” them the necessary living tools to empower them to become happier.

As Dr Norman Vincent Peale used to say, we are all in the "manufacturing" business ... each of us, each day, manufactures our own happiness or unhappiness as the case may be. This TV program, along with other writings, talks about the "science of happiness". To me, it's all about "altered attitudes" and "choices" ... no matter what happens to us. Easier said than done, of course.
The eight volunteers, from all different walks of life, all live within the Marrickville area but were unknown to each other prior to being selected for the program. Individually and collectively, these eight people represent a range of ages, backgrounds and life circumstances. What they share in common was the desire to get happy. After screening for clinical depression and mental health issues, the producers selected eight individuals who were "relatively unhappy but ready for change".

Heading up the “team of experts” is Dr Tony Grant, who is an academic and a practitioner and international pioneer in the fields of coaching psychology and positive psychology. he makes the interesting point that an "attitude of gratitude" - familiar to those involved in Twelve Step programs - has been shown to have lasting psychophysiological effects for up to 6 months. Amazing! So, be grateful ... again, no matter what happens.

Then there’s Dr Russ Harris, a Mindfulness expert and the author of the international bestseller The Happiness Trap.

Finally, there is physiotherapist and mind-body specialist Anna-Louise Bouvier. She’s there to attend to the bio-physical needs of the volunteers.

After explaining what Mindfulness is - “paying attention with openness, curiosity and flexibility” was the description given - Dr Russ Harris engaged the eight volunteers in two Mindfulness exercises. The first was “the sultana bit” ... sounds, at first, like the old burlesque routine known as “the lemon bit”, but it's altogether different. You take just one a sultana and look, smell, touch, feel, fondle, listen (!), taste, etc, the sultana for 5 minutes, before ultimately swallowing the sultana.

For those familiar with the writings of the celebrated Zen master and author Thich Nhat Hanh, he, long ago, recommended that you put just one raisin in your mouth and, without doing anything, let it dissolve. Sultana, raisin, orange ... it doesn’t matter.

The sultana exercise was followed by an exercise in Mindful Listening in which volunteers, in pairs, faced each other, taking turns to listen mindfully ... without interruption or commentary ... to each other tell the other person about a happy incident and then a most unhappy incident in their life. All very moving.

I was greatly impressed by the way the volunteers responded to the use of Mindfulness “techniques” (I know I shouldn’t use that word). Mindfulness made a big impact on the way they started to feel about themselves, assisting them to develop empathy and understanding for others as well as learning to stay focused in, and curious about, the present moment.